San Diego Figure Skating Communications
What do you do if people don't respect you?
If people do not give you respect you think you deserve, prove them wrong either through direct or indirect actions. Rejections usually occur because of the ignorance of others and not because of any mistakes you committed. It is helpful to review typical mistakes that might be occurring that prevent people from providing the respect they deserve.
Take positive steps to earn respect.
First impressions are very important. When approaching people you don't want to appear hesitant in your appearance as expressed in your facial expressions and body language.
People are more likely to
believe information they are told by trusted and credible source. The
appearance of confidence will
cause people to believe that your message is important and trustworthy.
A source that
to be hesitant and nervous will not be consider as trustworthy because
the individual fails to gain
Here are few suggestions that are useful in getting people to respect you:
People become discouraged by negative signs and they become encouraged when they see positive signs. Refer to Increasing Confidence.
Far to many people attempt to impress people of the self-importance. If you want a person's respect then you must approach them and allow them "to tell you who they are". Monopolizing the conversation will result people being turned off and thus you failed to earn their respect because they did not feel valued.
Many of life's rejections might
be the direct result of your own self doubts which are directly
reflected in your actions and behavior. If you approach
people differently, they may have more respect for you.
10 Ways To Earn the Respect of Others - by Dumb Little Man July 31, 2009 ... 10 Ways To Earn the Respect of Others. respect. Have you ever met someone who was rude to you and didn't hold you with much regard?References:
How To Earn Respect In Life July 20, 2007 ... Discover how to earn respect in any area of your life. Learn tips for gaining respect at the workplace and at home.
7 Ways To Get Instant Respect Respect is earned, never given. Today we want to do everything yesterday, few have the will, patience or perseverance needed to earn the respect they desire.
Cadet Stuff: Leadership and Earning Respect Obviously, as a leader, the voluntary respect of your followers is crucial. Let's look at a few ways of earning that respect, based on the leadership style of a Marine.
Four Ways to Earn Respect at Your First Job Bad first impressions can haunt you for a long time. These four tips will help new employees make a good impression on their first job.
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